Even now, I hesitate to speak of every little thing that bothers me
People are capable of caring genuinely; but not entirely.
Makes sense, after all, everyone has their own story to contend to.
What I speak of are competitive folk.
Those who listen as you mourn your loss,
And as you cry, are all too busy formulating
An over-exaggerated, self-righteous speech in their head
If only to prove how much they can out-mourn you.
– O.D. ©2019
Art by: JoeyJazz
Pain is pain no matter how small it may be for you. Don’t patronize someone else’s pain because you’ve gone through it or it feels small to you. Don’t compare how you deal with pain with others’ way of doing it. We all go through the same events differently.
And just because you’re a supposed “expert” at suffering, doesn’t mean everyone should automatically feel good whenever you show your martyr complex like a trophy.